52 years old and 323.86 kg heavy mother of 4 gets new 38 years old boyfriend

fatA woman who spent years deliberately putting on put on weight in her quest to become the heaviest woman in the world has now lost a staggering 238lbs after splitting from her feeder boyfriend – ultimately saving her life.

Morbidly obese Patty Sanchez, 51, went from 721lbs to 476lbs, after finally breaking free from a viscous cycle of constant eating, which was encouraged by her ex-boyfriend and online fans.

At one point Patty, who lives in Reno, Nevada, wanted to be the heaviest woman in the world – consuming 13,000 calories per day for several years.

But after breaking up with her former partner she decided to change her diet and lifestyle.

The mother-of-four said the weight loss has dramatically improved both her personal and family life.

‘I was tremendous – and I felt like I was dying a slow death,’ Patty said.

‘I realized that the feeding relationship I was in and the squashing was benefiting others, but it wasn’t for me.

‘The weight loss had a lot to do with my break up with my ex – I was being served every meal daily, and when we broke up I had to take care of myself. (read more in english after Hindi and Urdu news)

उम्र 52 साल, चार बच्चों की मां, वजन 323.86 किलोग्राम और ऐसे में 38 साल का हैंडसम ब्वॉयफ्रेंड मिल जाए तो यह हैरत में डालने वाली खबर है। ऐसा ही कुछ अमेरिका के नेवेडा स्टेट की रेनो सिटी की रहने वाली पैट्टी सांचेज की जिंदगी में हुआ है। यह सब पाने के लिए इस महिला ने जो कुछ किया वह अपने आप अनोखा है और आज इन दोनों की ‘एडवेंचरस सेक्स लाइफ’ है। ऐसे मिला 38 साल का हैंडसम ब्वॉयफ्रेंड…

पैट्टी जब भयंकर मोटापे से जूझ रही थी और वजन 323.86 किलोग्राम पहुंच गया तो पहले ब्वॉयफ्रेंड से रिलेशन टूट गया। इस ब्रेकअप के बाद उसने तय किया कि वह अपना वजन घटाएगी और इसके बाद 120.65 किलोग्राम घटाया। वजन कम होने के बाद पैट्टी ने एक डेटिंग साइट पर अपने फोटोज पोस्ट करने शुरू किए। इस पर ब्रेयान ने उसे मैसेज किया। यहीं से उनके प्यार की शुरुआत हो गई।

अाठ माह पहले डेटिंग के दौरान पैट्टी की जिंदगी में 38 साल का हैंडसम ब्यॉफ्रेंड ब्रेयान जॉनसन आया। ब्रेयान रोज उसे डेली वर्कआउट के लिए जिम और अन्य जरूरी जगहों पर लेकर जाता है। पैट्टी का कहना है, ‘ब्रेयान ने मेरी जिंदगी बदल दी है। मैंने कभी ऐसा प्यार महसूस नहीं किया है। ब्रेयान ने मेरी पूरी जिंदगी बदल दी है।’

पैट्टी को पहले हर दिन 13000 कैलोरी की डाइट लेना पड़ती थी, लेकिन अब उसका वजन 203.20 किलो है और लगातार अपना वजन घटा रही है। हर दिन ब्रेयान और पैट्टी योगा की प्रैक्टिस करते हैं। पैट्टी ने कहा हम एक दूसरे का हाथ नहीं छोड़ सकते।

عمر 52 سال، چار بچوں کی ماں، وزن 323.86 کلوگرام اور ایسے میں 38 سال کا ہینڈسم بويپھرےڈ مل جائے تو یہ حیرت میں ڈالنے والی خبر ہے. ایسا ہی کچھ امریکی نےوےڈا اسٹیٹ کی رینو شہر کی رہنے والی پےٹٹي سانچیز کی زندگی میں ہوا ہے. یہ سب حاصل کرنے کے لئے اس عورت نے جو کچھ کیا وہ اپنے آپ منفرد ہے اور آج ان دونوں کی ‘اےڈوےچرس جنسی زندگی’ ہے. ایسے ملا 38 سال کی ہینڈسم بويپھرےڈ …

پےٹٹي جب شدید موٹاپا سے دو چار رہی تھی اور وزن 323.86 کلوگرام تک پہنچ گیا تو پہلے بويپھرےڈ سے ریلیشن ٹوٹ گیا. اس بریک اپ کے بعد اس نے طے کیا کہ وہ اپنا وزن گھٹاےگي اور اس کے بعد 120.65 کلو گرام کٹوتی. وزن کم ہونے کے بعد پےٹٹي نے ایک ڈیٹنگ سائٹ پر آپ پھوٹوج پوسٹ کرنے شروع کئے. اس پر برےيان نے اسے میسج کیا. یہیں سے ان کی محبت کا آغاز ہو گیا.

ااٹھ ماہ پہلے ملنہ کے دوران پےٹٹي کی زندگی میں 38 سال کا ہینڈسم بيپھرےڈ برےيان جانسن آیا. برےيان روزانہ اسےدیکھ ڈیلی ورزش کے لئے جم اور دیگر ضروری جگہوں پر لے کر جاتا ہے. پےٹٹي کا کہنا ہے، ‘برےيان نے میری زندگی بدل دی ہے. میں نے کبھی ایسا محبت محسوس نہیں کیا. برےيان نے میری پوری زندگی بدل دی ہے. ‘

پےٹٹي کو پہلے ہر دن 13000 کیلوری کی ڈائٹ لینا پڑتی تھی، لیکن اب اس کا وزن 203.20 کلوگرام ہے اور مسلسل وزن کم کر رہی ہے. ہر دن برےيان اور پےٹٹي یوگا کی پریکٹس کرتے ہیں. پےٹٹي نے کہا ہم ایک دوسرے کا ہاتھ نہیں چھوڑ سکتا.

she said that, ‘But when I reached my lowest and couldn’t walk three steps to the bathroom without getting winded I was worried I wouldn’t be there for my four kids and five grandkids.

‘My struggles didn’t come full surface until I became single and had no one to help me and I couldn’t cook for myself, bathe myself, or leave the house – it was very lonely.

‘I started learning how to make my own meals, and chose the food I was craving instead of the food others wanted me to eat to gain weight.

‘I cook myself salads, chicken, stir-fries and try to eat very few carbs through the day.

Start of it all: Patty, who is pictured as a child (center), said she gave up on diets in 1991 – when she used weigh 154lbs and where a size eight


Start of it all: Patty, who is pictured as a child (center), said she gave up on diets in 1991 – when she used weigh 154lbs and where a size eight

Mad love: Nearly a decade after she gave up on diets, Patty met her now-ex-boyfriend who introduced her to the gainer-feedee relationship

‘I have more control over what I eat now and I feel so much better.’

After divorcing her second husband in 1991, Patty, who used to be a size eight and weighed 154lbs at 18, gave up on diets.

‘I was fed up with staying slim for men and binged on whatever I felt like eating – it was freedom,’ she said.

‘In my 20’s after having my children my weight jumped to 238lbs, and I continued to gain weight.

‘In my 30’s I was 294lbs and by my 40’s I was more than 392lbs.’

Unhealthy obsession: Patty said her then boyfriend had ‘fantasies about being with a girl and making her fatter’

Not meant to last: Patty said 90 per cent of their relationship revolved around eating. She would cook and he would watch her eat and rub her stomach

In 2000, Patty met her boyfriend who introduced her to the gainer-feedee relationship.

She said: ‘We met through a friend on a phone chat line and I eventually moved to Los Angeles where he lived.

‘We dated for 10 years and at first he wasn’t interested in big women, but he said I opened up a new world to him and he enjoyed it.

‘He told me that he had fantasies about being with a girl and making her fatter.

‘I felt sexy and was happy that I was pleasing him.

End of an era: Patty’s overeating got to the point that she was gaining about 14lbs a month, However, when her boyfriend enlisted a group of fans to feed her when he was away, she found it strange and they separated

Family ties: Patty can be seen posing with her sons Logan Webber (left), 28, and Scott Webber (right), 30, as she shows of her 238lb weight loss

‘Ninety per cent of our relationship revolved around eating – I loved to cook and eat and he loved to watch me eat and rub my belly.’

But Patty’s family, including her two sons Scott Webber, 30 and Logan Webber, 28, were concerned about her rapid weight gain.

Scott said: ‘There was nothing healthy about going up to a weight where you have no quality of life – it was upsetting as her son to see her in a situation where she was physically deteriorating.

‘I was worried because living unhappily is more of a death sentence than passing away – we all have our time but she wasn’t happy and couldn’t live life because she was immobile.’

At one point Patty was gaining about 14lbs every month.

Doting children: Patty, who is pictured grocery shopping with Logan, said her sons were very concerned about her rapid weight gain and worried about her health before she started making significant lifestyle changes

Low point: At her heaviest, Patty could not walk around her home or bathe herself

‘I suffered from not getting the love I needed and wanted from my two prior husbands and with my ex it was different.

‘He was very verbal and liked my body and I didn’t need approval from him the way I did in my other relationships.’

To keep her weight up, Patty ate very large portions of food throughout the day.

She said: ‘For breakfast I would eat biscuits and gravy, eggs over easy, fried potatoes, bacon, and orange juice.

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